Necessity is the Mother of Invention, But it Can Be So Much More
November 18, 2014By Brian Maynor
Recently a client reminded me that sometimes there are outside influencers that dictate your wardrobe, whether you like it or not.
Sometimes addressing physical needs and limitations is the first priority in their wardrobe choices. That could be from coping with chronic pain to an allergic reaction from certain fabrics.
The need is real but the accommodation to creating a polished, professional look is easier said than done. Aside from the challenge of finding pieces that work there is also a battle against the status quo. It can be a real challenge to find alternatives to the standard items seen around the office not to mention scary.
We don’t often think of getting dressed for work as a test of courage, but that can be exactly what it is. Pushing boundaries and being different can be daunting, but luckily courage is a hallmark trait of an exceptional leader. Here are a few tips that could help shape your battle plan and turn personal challenges into professional success:
1. Don’t give in. Although comfort and functionality have to be considered they shouldn’t be used as excuses for being lazy, sloppy or generally divested in you appearance. Instead of giving up on a polished image because ‘normal’ pieces don’t work try looking at your situation as an opportunity. You have a tangible, legitimate reason for taking risks and creating something truly unique. It will be hard work, but totally worth it.
2. Think more about the big picture. Turning pieces and styles that accommodate your needs into looks that work for your professional aspirations can require a little creativity. That is where the big picture comes into play. We process image as a whole, meaning the overall impression has a bigger impact than the individual pieces. When your total look come across as polished and pulled-together it’s easier to forgive or overlook non-traditional items.
3. Don’t reinvent the wheel. You know what styles and brands work best for your needs, so starting there is the logical first step. Use all of those options first; then start looking for other pieces that have the same elements. When you start with what works and build out it’s less of a guessing game and more about having a direction and plan. It also saves time and frustration.
4. Downplay your concessions. This is a strategy everyone uses, or at least one they should use. If your footwear has to be low and wide instead of the standard closed-toe pump make sure your outfits don’t draw attention to your feet. Disguise your shoes by keeping them a dark solid color and wear matching tights. It’s the same concept as camouflaging problem areas: you play up the positives and focus attention to specific areas with color and details while hiding other areas by keeping them solid and dark.
Dressing for physical needs and limitations is hard work and takes a significant amount of thought, time and investment, but it also takes a lot of courage. Creating acceptable alternatives and embracing the situation as a challenge, instead of treating it like a defeat, is the best testament to that courage.
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About Brian Maynor
Brian Maynor has built a reputation as one of the leading style coaches in the Southeast and is quickly expanding his eponymous company, BRIAN MAYNOR and his FIND, FLATTER & FLAUNT line of image consulting services. A professional with a fresh, upbeat and down-to-earth personality and boundless creative energy, he works frequently with with local celebrities; Fortune 500 companies and nonprofit organizations; modeling agencies; fashion designers; production companies; record labels; media and individuals. A regular contributor to various fashion blogs and online communities, Brian Maynor is one of the most trusted and recognized style experts in the region, utilizing his education and training as a broadcast journalist to serve as a style lecturer, emcee, and commentator for over a decade. He has appeared at fashion shows, expos, and charity fundraisers, as well as events with big brands like Banana Republic, Ann Taylor, Chico’s and Macy’s. His approach is innovative, creative and fashion-forward, balancing fresh, modern styles with classic pieces to keep one’s look grounded. To learn more, visit http://www.brianmaynor.com.